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11-17-2002, 03:58 PM

Maybe I don't need to get into this too much, but typically, what's first felt right before a relationship is infatuation. I'm not saying what your feeling isn't true, cause well, nobody has any way of knowing except you. But, looking at your post and seeing how you've had these consistent feelings for a long time, I can say that you really like this girl.

I think every guy has to remember that girls are evil. You do realize that in your descriptions of her, you kind of put her on a pedastol, where it doesn't seem like she has any faults.

You claim that she looks at you the same way she looks at her bf... could this be an indication of leading you on or is it just purely your wishful perception?

I know that in your mind, you're thinking that maybe she has the same feelings for you... but, it could be that you're hoping she does.

But, if you really want to know where you stand with her... have a conversation about relationships and past relationships. Talk about the goods and the bads of your past experiences... you'll get an idea of the type of gf she would make, and you'd know how her relationship with her bf is.

I don't recommend telling her how you feel unless you know how she feels... I know it seems like a sissy approach, but at least she won't feel awkward around you.

I don't want to bring you down or tear up your hopes, but I do want you to be aware of these things... it softens the blow if things don't go your way. There's a possibility that she only sees you as a friend.

If there's one thing I've learned... it's never to come in between a relationship... stand your ground and don't come in between them. Shouldn't her happiness come before yours, even if it doesn't involve you?

11-17-2002, 03:58 PM	#10
lazy Posts: n/a	Maybe I don't need to get into this too much, but typically, what's first felt right before a relationship is infatuation. I'm not saying what your feeling isn't true, cause well, nobody has any way of knowing except you. But, looking at your post and seeing how you've had these consistent feelings for a long time, I can say that you really like this girl. I think every guy has to remember that girls are evil. You do realize that in your descriptions of her, you kind of put her on a pedastol, where it doesn't seem like she has any faults. You claim that she looks at you the same way she looks at her bf... could this be an indication of leading you on or is it just purely your wishful perception? I know that in your mind, you're thinking that maybe she has the same feelings for you... but, it could be that you're hoping she does. But, if you really want to know where you stand with her... have a conversation about relationships and past relationships. Talk about the goods and the bads of your past experiences... you'll get an idea of the type of gf she would make, and you'd know how her relationship with her bf is. I don't recommend telling her how you feel unless you know how she feels... I know it seems like a sissy approach, but at least she won't feel awkward around you. I don't want to bring you down or tear up your hopes, but I do want you to be aware of these things... it softens the blow if things don't go your way. There's a possibility that she only sees you as a friend. If there's one thing I've learned... it's never to come in between a relationship... stand your ground and don't come in between them. Shouldn't her happiness come before yours, even if it doesn't involve you?