|
I would have to say that you shouldnt change cause she wants you to but that you want to. I went threw this with my wife when we first met and I was a local cartel man if you catch my drift ...If not I used to love to hit the slopes. I was a well known member of the drug society. My wife wanted me to quit but I had to quit for myself not for her. She understood that it was a problem not only the money but the drugs them selves. She finally left me untill I changed my mine and wanted to quit. Once I decided that then she was willing to help me .......I gess what im getting at is that people will always love you no matter what the case .....When it comes to drugs and drinking if you have a problem dont use a woman as an exscuse to quit do it for your self so that maybe you can find a nice woman. I still to this day have freinds that say the same thing ...That if they had a woman they would quit....What they dont realize is that if they cleaned up then woman might wanna hook up with them ....How I got my wife is beyond me cause I was really F up....Maybe she just seen the real person beneath all the drugs....Like i said if you have a problem make the change for your self if not that then do it for your famillys sake ......Trust me its not a fun thing to see all your buddys layin in an early grave....
Hope this may help some one out there ....
Ty13
Lucky13
|