[DsBlu01CivEX]

The only reason why I made the "You guys are weak" comment was because for at least a certain time period in about 99% of every male's life, he lets his damn extra appendage make all the decisions for him. You all know that the "friends with benefits" or one night stands are "bad" but you will go along with it anyway. Then regret it later....therefore at some point in most males lives they are weak.

And common sense and book smarts is HARD to find in either gender. I can find at least one of them in a hot guy...but rarely both. I don't need to have genius or anything but I do want some that can sound intelligent while talking and is passionate about what they are talking about. Which I think comes hand in hand. The more the speaker cares about the subject they are talking about, the more intelligent they are going to sound. And I'd prefer not to have someone to gwak at while trying to hold a deep convo. i want to focus on the convo and what the person has to say rather than to stare at them and miss something important.