From reading both your posts it seems taht you yourself don't know what you want.
Figure that out first. That's the most important thing.
Second, if this isn't a large Honda dealership, it usually is harder to get them to do something after you gave them the money and bought the car. And if they do actually do it, they'll find the cheapest parts there are...meaning they will be crap.
Don't expect Honda Dealership quality service.
AND FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT!
You are WAY too confused in your posts!