Mobbo, you really shouldnt write to her.. if anything it'll scare her..
Even though you want to have it all with her, you gotta get there one step at a time.. So start by getting closer to her.. Talk to her, try to be friends. And then, you'll know more about her (and if she really is right for you), and you can then take it to the next level..
In this strategy, nobody really gets hurt..
Its not like if I'D walk up to woman and say; " girl, wanna be my lover?" or "girl, I want you to be the mother of my child" or "Elizabeth, marry me!"
Sorry I got carried away.. but you get the idea..
haha, I hope ladylude99 doesnt see this..