There's nothing wrong with phonetic spelling
Don't sweat it. But yeah, don't try and define what you guys are right away. Girls are quirky. Maybe she felt that things were moving too fast. Not to say that it's your fault or hers. Just be friends, and get to know eachother. That's key. My last boyfriend and I were like night and day and yes, we learned so much from one another but we were friends for a while first and things just started developing between us. Go with the flow.
