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Originally posted by cutiepy701
That's a really good question. I think what makes a slut is a girl that just does not have respect for herself. My first time was when I was 17. Say I slept with 4 guys over the course of a year since that time. Lets say they were guys that I dated briefly for say a month or two. I'll be 21 in about a month and a half so we'll just round up and say I'm 21. 4 x4 would come out to 16. 16 guys, yeah that's a lot right? But I know that I'm not a slut. These are guys that I dated. Stuff a.k.a sex is going to start to happen after several weeks. It just happens as you get more comfortable and in tune with a person. This really isn't my case because all the guys that I start to see turn out to be tools. But it's just an example of why you shouldn't make a judgement on someone because of a number. Girls that do things sexually with a guy because he has a nice car or will buy her stuff if she puts out is obviously a slut. Girls that do it for attention are sluts. If I go to a party on Sat and hookup that's not big deal. But if I went to one Fri and had done the same thing, that would be slutty. I guess a lot of it is just how a girl presents herself and how much self respect she has.
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Second of all if you want to pick on me for averaging 4 guys a yr, then you might as well do it to everyone else....Im sure msvtech has a few words for you also. 4 people in a yr isn't that much. Some people have sex, just to have sex. Or feel it is appropriate. Others view it as sacred and sleep with only people they love or are in love with. I have both views, therefore Im gonna look at having sex a little more differently than others. THAT DOES NOT MAKE ME A WHORE
