im sorry, i didn't realize you were a girl until halfway through ur post i read ur profile
my apologies...
well, guys who get out of long relationships have issues they have to sort out before they start dating again... it looks as if he didn't, when he hooked up with you it seems as if you reminded him too much of her the moment right after you said "yes". it could be that he compares every girl to his ex girlfriend , this could change, but it might take awhile. i still see myself doing it sometimes, well...i think i do it all the time, and i've been away from fiance since May. ok, i forgot what your exact question was so i'll stop right here...*sleep*