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nah dude i think we all have it in us to be like this, some people just let it rule who they are.
I see stuff like that in me but not even close to the way you have it. I too can point out the flaws in my friends, family and gf at teh time. And you know what iv'e been there and done that; friends stop being your friends, family tells you to show some more respect and you end up dating a girl who thinks its healthy.
What you have has taken over who you are, it can be a healthy tool to be able to look at something adn see all the problems... it can make you a shit load of money *hint hint* but if when you look at anything and all you see are the flaws thats wrong.
For example, one of my friends never shows how he's feeling nor comes up with ideas for what to do on a friday night. its like hes just sorta there. now i could let this bother me or i could just accept him as one of my good friends. I've chosen to keep him as a friend.
Or when it comes to girls, if you think your gonna find yourself a porno star type girl (god knows why you would want one, but for this convo lets say you do)with the blonde hair big boobs and tight ass. Well i'm sorry but you might find that but chances are your gonna pass up alot of GREAT girls who dont fit the MO in search of a girl that when you do find you still wont be happy with. Am i making any sense?
I think you need to change your view on life, its ment to be enjoyed and learned from. You choose to view life negatively, make no mistake about it... its a choice. Make the "right" choice and keep your chin up!
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