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Originally posted by msvtec14
When it comes to love or sex, I don't think that you can ever set an appropriate time frame or even a number. It just all about when you feel that it's right and that you're ready. If you meet someone and fall in love, I don't necessarily think that you have to wait until you marry them to have sex. As long as you're doing it for the right reasons, I don't see anything wrong with it. If it's your belief or what have you to wait and that is something that you have a lot of faith in, that's ok. In terms of my religon, that's what the belief is but there just came a point in time where I was just ready to be at that place with my boyfriend. My first boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. I waited for the first 2. I knew that I was ready before those 2 years went by but I still felt like I had to wait because of what I was told and the way that I was raised. Like I said, in certain respects I do wish that I had waited because it would be an amzing thing to share with the person that I marry. But in others, I'm happy with the decision that I made because of a lot of beautiful expieriences that I've had in my 2 serious relationships. That might sound corny but I don't care.
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that sounds great if you are able to wait 2 years, i wait just over a week with my ex. First and last girl i have sex with before marriage. I found it made everythign more complicated, i got two scares because she thought she was pregnate and hadn't gotten tested before she told me i almost flipped out... stupid girl! Not to mention what if the person you sleeping with has something and never tells you? what then? your gonna be stuck with one big problem if you infect your next parenter because you dont know you had something.. this goes more for girls because guys can typically look at their dicks and see whats up. Girls on teh other hand have to be seeing a doc to find out whats up. Not to mention another fact, girls will get lose after a lot of sex... blah i'm just bitching
i'm gonna find me a simple girl who hasnt' been around the block... then maybe life will start to fall into place.
time to hit teh bike! grrr