It's really hard once you get in that friend zone. I don't care what anyone says. A guy and a girl will never "just be friends". I mean, you totally can be but there will always be chemistry somewhere. We're only human. I've had guy friends that fell for me. There were 2 that I did end up dating and we're no longer friends anymore. I'm not trying to bring you down. I'm really not but everything changes once you cross that line. From the way that you said she was acting, I think that she has feelings for you as well. As to why she was acting cold, either she is playing hard to get or she is trying to make you think that she doesn't need you or she is trying to push you away because of her feelings because they might scare her. I think that you should talk to her about. Stress that you want no games and total honesty. No fronts. If you put up with bullshit now, then you'll be putting up with it further down the road. Whatever happens, please remember to take things slow and COMMUNICATE. It would be a very important decision on both of your parts and there's going to be a lot of feelings that are going to be involved. Good luck with everything.
