"Do you believe in love at first sight? How about I walk past you again?"
-- anonymous
Anyhow, jokes aside. I've known so many girls who have found that "perfect man" just to realize she isn't happy with him, she was happier with the ahole, or the abuser, or whatever. Girls are
in the head. Hope you're not one of them!
Not to be a pessimist, but people generally don't truly understand what they want. Talk is cheap and there's always a lot of it. You want what you want regardless of what you say or try to convince yourself.
Of course I'm not talking about
you specifically, know what I mean, Vern?
Anyhow, I say give it a whirl and good luck. I know some people who swear they have found their soul mates, I dunno how much I believe in that stuff, but one couple has been married for some time now and they both vow that they are married to their soulmate. Guess it can happen, just hasn't happened to me, obviously. Best wishes and I hope it works out for the best for both of you.
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