Welcome to the Honda World....well AEM CAI would be a good choice. that is a name and intake that has been tested time and time again to get Max PErformance gains from it. For the $ it's the best CAI $ can buy....
As fr the exhaust you have a few you could consider..DC Sports,Apexi,Greddy,R&D,Brullen and HKS to name a few...Just depends on what you might want for looks and how low or high you want the exhaust to sound.
As for the dash kit that would be a real preference matter. I would say find a local shop and see if they have one or a demo car or even posibly go to some shows and see if you can find a ride like yours w/ the kit so you won't waste your $ on something you won't like.
Welcome to HS and glad to have you aboard..Hope this might help a little....
