Thread: LIfe blows
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Old 07-18-2002, 12:56 PM   #17
spoogenet
 
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Relationships change everything. Living with someone changes everything. There are lots of people you can be great friends with and never survive in a relationship or living arrangement with. Like my roommate....I hate him as a roommate, but like him as a friend just fine.

Since you were friends for so long before the relationship, then you'll probably be capable of maintaining a friendship afterwards. It will be weird at first, but at least you recognize this already. Seeing her with another guy down the road, or her seeing you with another girl, as I've already said will be the real test of the viability of your friendship. If you're open and true with one another then you'll be able to work through things anyways.

The best advice I could probably give at the moment would be this: don't expect anything for false expectations can ruin it all. What you expect going into it can have a huge bearing on what eventually comes out of it.

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