Yah I sorta tend to wait for guys to come to me.....it's the whole rejection factor
. Occassionally I'll get the boobs ( I can't get balls cuz I'm a girl...so next best thing!) to go up to talk to a guy/group of guys. Like if I see them checkin my friends and I out and we're checkin them out....I'll say something. I know the other girls won't. I tend to be the blunt one out of the group.
As for how I would want a guy to approach me....just come and say hi. It definitely depends on the situation and where we're at. Like at the club/bar...offering to buy a drink is nice...or asking me to dance. I'm not fond of the guys that run up behind you and just start thrusting themselves at my @ss. I'd much prefer a guy to ask....he's more likely not to get elbowed or ran away from. I'm also not huge on a guy I just met callin me babe/honey/sweet thing...whatever...I do that with my guy friends that I know...not guys I just meet.
This is all I can think of for now...I'm sure I'll think of more stuff to write....