It all depends on where you hang out.. I mean if you hang out with all girls or all guys (same sex) you are less likely to find someone because not everyone has the guts to approach someone in a crowd. You really shouldn't go looking for the right person, it should be more like you come across them. If girls say they hang out at the mall.. you guys know damn well you don't wanna be at the mall 24-7, so let's say you find this chica at the mall. You guys get together and thats where she wants to hang out. That sucks for you and either you are just gonna shut up and put up with it or tell her you don't wanna hang out there and that could lead to some ruckus. So just stay where you are and open up your connections.. meet new people, have some friends who know some people here and there. And just keep your eyes open.
