Damn Chris I'd feel violated after something like that
Dimitry I think you just need to lay low now.. you have entered the "friend zone" for sure. Shes got feelings for this guy and there isn't too much you can do except be there as a friend for her and just get to know her like that. I have personally gone thru that many times and when the time came around for us to be more than friends.. I knew too much and didn't really see the relationship benefitting me. Hopefully in your case things will work out in their own time but for now, just be there as her friend and don't pressure her with your feelings for her.