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is church a regular thing for both of you or just one of you?
has she gone on any different medication lately?
if she hasn't changed meds, and you still really care abuot her then dude (i know this is gonna sound harsh) but just let it pass without starting a fight with her. Talk to her about it yes, but dont get so worked up over it.
I'm personally becoming a believer of one strike and your out type of relationship, where if you break up stay broken up. though if your willing to give it a second or third or four chance just dont forget why it ended the first time. I know i'm bad about that and hope the 2nd or 3rd time around things will be different, but they never are.
My guess is the church thing has made her look at why she is having sex with you and until she comes to realize why, she wants to hold off on it until she knows for sure. It sounds too me something has spooked her and she maybe telling you the truth that it has nothing to do with the church group. Ever thought of just believing what shes saying?
but if you want to find out if shes playing with you, dont make any moves towards her, let her come to you. I know its playing with her but if you truly think she is messing with you then find out one way or another. be warned though this can go bad fast. and if it comes to this you have really poor communication, not recommened if you care about this girl.
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