Your not Dumb .. Your just UNKNOWLEDGE-I-FIED
Go here for a massive amount of links to find Body Kits
LINKT-I-FIED
If you have factory riims, then rims can wait, at least your not rollin on hub caps....
Don't forget the Tint!
Lowering the Car with a set of Springs and/or coilovers adds a realy nice look to the car.
My real suggestion is to go pick up a copy of Sport Compact Car. Look at all the rides in thier, and if you see anything you like, but don't know what it is, or where to get it... come back and ask we're all bound to know.
Also go to
www.ebay.com and do a search on your car... that always turns out some interesting results, and lets you know what is out thier for your car.
Welcome to the boards
Happy Honda'ing