I know guys have a bad rep for cheating, but of the guys and girls I've known.....I've known very few guys who cheated on their girlfriends, but I knew lots of girls who cheated on their boyz. Maybe it's not a representative sample....but it affects my views on things.
But on the trust issue....I don't think you build trust through 'little white lies' and the likes. Maybe it's just me, but I tend to be blunt and honest. It pisses lots of people off, girls and guys alike....but people know that if they ask me, they get my honest opinion. I ain't gonna blow sunshine where the sun don't shine unless it's well deserved.... It pisses me off when girls think my compliments aren't honest, but I guess those are just the girls that don't know me well enough. Ok, rant over.
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