First of all, I did cheat on my ex, but what she failed to tell you all are: I dated my ex for a total of 5 years. i am originally from Taiwan and that was where we met. For the first two years, I was in Taiwan. I moved here to the US and she stayed there. We did real good as far as the long distance relatioship goes, at least for the first two years. We saw each other once a year, for like two weeks. Things started to go wrong during the third year, we stopped calling each other and I met other girls.
As for when we argue. Examples that she has brought up are that I tell her that there's nothing between us anymore. When we first met. She held a full time job and when she had time, she came over and kept the house clean and did a lot of things that I approved off. Now that we live together, she rarely do house work, unless I make it a big issue. She has been real good about cleaning lately, but to me, the only reason she's doing it is because we get into fights about the house being a mess. And when things calm's down, she stops doing all that we have argued about.
She has not had a job for 3 to 4 month now and I really have no problem with that. I would rather she stay home, but I do believe that it is part of her obligation and priority to keep the house up while I am at work. But it doesn't happen that way. Most of the time, we have to get into serious arguments for her to even clean the house. I may seem anal about all this, but the point is, we are trying to sell the house and move to Tampa, but her priority is to go and work out and do what she wants to do and pick the house up when she's done with what she wants to do. I told her, if she keeps the house up and put things away after she uses it, it will only take her maybe 30 minutes a day in the morning to pick up around before her workout. People do come and see the house at any given time, I EXPECT for the house to be presentable when people come. Are my WRONG about this?
For the past week, I have been working 13 hours days because of the Daytona Beach Bike Week. I was suppose to get off at 6 on Monday, but it was so busy, I needed to stay behind. I lost track of time and called her at 6:30, but she blew up over it and slammed the phone down on me. Is that reasonable? Is it just my problem? How was I wrong at all, I was at work, making money for her, our daughter (not biologically), and me.
This girl that she is talking about. I was helping the customer and had no idea that she was as close to me as she claim she was. Well, anyways, we had a whole argument about something that I could not control. She said that the argument was about me laughing at what she told me. I don't see anything wrong with that. I told her that she's over reacting and don't worry about it and also don't worry about me, becasue I will not cheat on her.
Here is my daily routine. 8 get up for work. Get home at 6 and saty home with her and our daughter. I never go out unless to stret races on the weekends, but I am with her.........
Sorry for the long ass thread...my piece of mind.
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Ian
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