Geezer,
I"m feel for you! and I hope you can get over this chick soon. I Kinda understand Where Mellissa is Coming from though, I'm a Christian, I consider myself Non-denominational, although I like the worship style of a presbyterian church and have belonged to one for many years. I also think Cathollics Do things a little bit Screwy ! I apologize for bashing, and I'm not trying to convert you. But this dates back to Martin Luther and the Prodestin (mispell) revolution. I DO NOT THINK You are going to hell !!! Catholics believe ***** ****** is the only root to heaven, and that is the ONLY thing that matters !!!! But other things they do, like pray to *****' mother Mary, and think She was Sinnless... I dont agree with and can't find in the Bible. That is why I think you guys operate a little funny. But your still saved and that's ok with me !
Just a note on Mormon's cuase you mentioned them, Mormon talk about *****, but do not believe that a faith in ***** is the only way to get into Heaven, Mormons believe that you have to perform good works in order to get to heaven... In heaven they think there are different levels of heaven, and the better you do on earth the better level you get into. I will bash Mormons a little here... that is not Christian... Not Christian means there not going to Heaven... Not to be mean, but's their only one Qualification, Do you have faith in ****** !
Ok .. Here's what I'm getting at... I think this girl, Really really liked you. I think her goal was to Convert you before she started a relationship with you. I think she just liked you SOO much that she just started the relationship, thinking she could convert you later. I think she had a deep down belief that "the family who prays together stays together!" and I believe that too. So knowing that you would not convert, Or that she was unable to do so, she did not want to have a permanent relationship with someone who had such different views in such a big aspect of her life as religion. I dont blame her, i wouldn't want that either, I love going to church w/ my wife and praying together.
But anyway you should also want the same thing in your life ! So this couldn't have been the gurl for you ! I also think she must have been under the impression that Catholics are a works based religion. Which to the best of my knowledge is false.
Well I wish you the best, and if you ever have any questions about whether or not the Catholic church is the right church for you , i think you should FULLY investigate all aspect of that, before making a desicion
Best of luck
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