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I see what Darin's trying to say...even if I disagree slightly. While the majority of decisions should be made from a "we" perspective, if one person is irrational and illogical then it becomes an "I" perspective. There's nothing at all wrong with wanting to move your career and thus your life forward. The problem begins when your spouse stops you from making such a change founded on their own insecurities. Would I like the idea of my wife being away for a week at a time? Of course not, but if she felt strongly enough about it and it would further her goals in life then it's a different story. As much as the idea of "we" is important, if you love someone then you respect their life choices.
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