If it is something you really want, and she won't even let you try it, I say dump her... whatever you do, do NOT let her stay at her parents for an extended period of time while all her crap is in your house... because then she is just recovering/getting over you in familiar surroundings while you still have to see her crap every day and be reminded of her.
When do you have to let the higher-ups know your decision?
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yeah, its that big
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