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Old 01-18-2006, 01:14 PM   #12
JDMFantasy2k
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Originally posted by Robert
JDM You have tons to lose, moving in with a gf is no small step. I think after that comment you should really think this through because it sounds to me like you aren't looking at all the out comes from this.

Why not just let this unfold as it may and not try to control the situation by presenting options for your gf. Let her come to you wtih her request to either stay there with you or move with her parents. Would that not work better?

I'm no authority on thhis, but i gather you're around 18. Take it easy with the commitement because thats what moving in is.

mmm true enough. I do want her to make her own decision but at the same time i feel bad that i'm not doing what i should to help. Fourtnately the most current deal on her parent's house fell through, so that will hopefully give the situation more time to unfold.
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