That's unfortunate. However, I always felt that it's uneccessary to bring up men being jerks. Men this and men that. Dude, it's not just a gender thing [I know most of you already know this] so why does that always come up?
Anyhow, I agree with PAT in the sense of not bringing a buddy. Shit just happens and shit like that sucks..but don't let it get you down so much; that guy's probably a dumbass anyway. I don't know you personally, just always assumed you were just some sexual chick. But because I have hope in all things, I think you should too.
. Someone worth your tears and frustration will come along.
On a final note, don't EVER hate yourself. I don't think that needs to be explained.