I'll tell you the problem right now with divorce, and it is gonna sound obvious; people getting married before they are mature enough to make the decision and handle it. I know many couples get married out of love, and sometimes it works, but sometimes they get married and realize they love each other but aren't compatible in other ways and just won't put in the effort to compromise. Another reason is the end-a-fight-marriage. The destructive relationship where a marriage is rushed on the rebound... guy f*cks up, proposes to prove "love", and there you have it; another marriage doomed to fail. Another reason is how fast-paced today's world is. The individual faces far more frequent problems today than 300 years ago, thus the couple faces problems more frequently. Basically, you gotta know you love the other person and can LIVE with them before you consider it, and most people don't know that, so they F it up.
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yeah, its that big
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