[ShagginJet]

There are other ways of showing a woman that you appreciate her, as a partner and as a person. Spending that kind of money on diner might not be the wisest. Have you considered spending that money to take her out of town for the weekend? Take her to a nice bed and breakfast, a weekend retreat, somewhere where the two of you can just enjoy each other. Just because it's a fancy restaurant doesn't mean she'll like it, and god only knows how things could unexpectedly suck for no reason. Either which way, congratulation on the (insert # of years here) years you two have been together.