I don't think it was a personal attack... maybe it was, maybe it wasn't, but WHO CARES... like ya said BlackWolf, this is a damn internet forum, no big deal. Everyone needs to live the way they see best fit with the situation (past and present) that they have to deal with, simple as that. It will differ for everyone...
That said, I need to get laid badly. Maybe this weekend something will happen... staying w/ 4 girls out of town for a music fest (another one)... wish me luck.