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Wren, though I think you made your point very clear to us something tells me she will over look some of these points you bring up.
Also there is a difference between your first and second email that would lead me to believe you are now having doubts about how strongly you came off in the first one. I woudlnt back down on this one and I would also recomend that if you want to contiue this conversation further with her one of you have the balls to call the other. Putting a relationship in the hands of email is a very bad idea.
I'd be asking her a few questions if she still wants you back. Like when did you realize this? when was the last time you slept with Naren? Why did you sleep with him? etc etc. Pry into their relationsip in hopes of better understanding where she is really coming from. That is of course if you care and want to make something of you relationship.
On the flip side: She might have really screwed up and realized she needs you in her life.
My advice...
all this back and forth does little good in trying to fix a relationship that is doomed to fail with actions like this. Email convo's are bad, ex's who sleep with guys like naren are bad and emotionally this isnt good for either of you.
at this point I'd be asking myself. If I dont sleep with anyone before I get back together with her, will I be able to deal with the fact she's done guy(s) I dont know about? If she was willing to tell me all the details would I want to know?
The truth of it is, you shouldnt be ok with behaviour like this. Its not very lady like and doesnt lead me to think she'd make much of a wife (if thats what you're looking for). My guess, is in the first 5 years of being married she will cheat many times on her husband who is faithful. Though she might not know it, it sounds like she has a bit of a wild side to her; she just had to get away from home to open up.
Take this like a man and be strong. Break all contact and live your own lives bro.
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