Just let it go. Sometimes things don't work out the way YOU want them to but you have to understand that you can't make decisions for her, she has to herself. I'd say by the info given by you take of the situation and by her said actions, I'd let the whole thing go. If she's THAT much influenced by what her "friends" say/tell her, then you don't need someone like that in your life. You need someone who has their own convictions and will stand by them. As an example, say if I had a problem with you (Highlander) then I would talk to you and get it straightened out with YOU. Not with your friends, not with my friends but each other. Yeah, you can listen to what they say but unless you know the facts then just treat it like the rumors they are and you know what they say about rumors. You seem to have your life on track here and that's what is most important. Think of yourself, your future and your life. Not what she is or is not going to do with hers. The long distance is just complicating things even more for you. It's not going to be easy but in your best interest, please, just let her go. Don't think about what happened in the past think about the future. You need to do this to understand that having someone with you is nice but it shouldn't have to complete you as a person. We're all maturing at this age and we need to stop thinking about what happened in high school and move on. Please don't think of this as a judgement but as advice from someone who's been there before. Take care of number one (yourself) first or you might step in number two. PM me if you need to. Take it easy for awhile and have a beer or two for me.....
