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Damnit Highlander...are you hacking your ex's AOL account? If so...I applaude you. Hehe. Here's what I'd usually do. If you try to go into their email account it'll prompt you for address and password. If you know enough about them you can usually hit the "forgot my password" link and answer whatever question they've setup for a forgotten password. Sometimes this doesn't work as some plases just route the password to an alternate email address. That or figure out the password to another one of their accounts as most people use the same password for most of their stuff. If all else fails you could do as Chris suggested and install a key logger...but you usually have to be at their computer to do so. I know there's a way to gain remote access to someone's PC as well...the way IT guys and tech support does...but I know dick about networking and the sort.