What I do when I am feeling under the weather is I go shopping...and charge up a card. When I am in the dressing room, cuz you know they have full-body mirrors in them, I will just put something on, and start dancing in the mirror...then I'll take a nice bath in my roman tub, go to Taco Bell, and rent me a good movie.
I like to dress up in lingerie as well...that makes me feel real sexy...especially trying it all on...wearing it all around the house...you know...just kickin back.
I think knowing that you look good and feeling good plays a major role in how major your confidence level is...
