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Its rather simple, if you exude much self confidence and you have a strong look about you as though you can handle yourself, then most guys don’t bother with the chance they can get shot down. At the same time, if you show that you for certain got it going on and you are comfortable with who you are, then it may be (often is) misinterpreted to mean something totally the opposite or it may be read as an unapproachable trait leading to the above mentioned thing for the guys. Personally I like that charistic in a woman especially—it’s a challenge and usually worth the effort and time to get to know someone. Body Language does play into it somewhat, however, it’s the same as above—if you are confident and know who you are, then its all about the opposite sex having the nerve to step up and deal with a confident, strong woman. In tha sense, you raise the level of the ‘game’ to your standards. It’s a BS filter if you will. Why on earth would you compromise that just to talk to a cute guy? If he cannot be himself and meet you on your merits, isn’t that a waste of time? It also depends on what you want in your life…
As a guy, I had bouts earlier on in life about those hotties that were ‘out of my league’ and you know what… it was a crock. Nothing is out of reach if you have the courage to reach for it—you still have a 50/50 shot. Its like life, you win some and you lose some
Its all about being real and honest with yourself… knowing what you want in your life and willing to try to find it while knowing that you may chose wrong sometimes.
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