For me...I can say that guys think I am intimidating as well...and as most of you said...it is the body language...because I knw sometimes when I am in deep thought....I can get this look onmy face like I am ready to kill someone...he he he
...but it ain't like that. I think that guys should approach girls regardless of their body language, if they really must know the low down on someone.
I did once take one of my guy friends to this nightclub (I live in Vegas) because he was searching for a girlfriend. He told me that he approached 4 girls and they just rejected him...so I don't think nightclubs are a great place to go lookin for girls...
Definately schools and house parties.
One thing I don't like about guys and that makes me cut them off...is when they come up to me either with some jacked up line...or they just come at me with a non-intelligent conversation. I also don't like it when they play messenger...like when somebody likes you and they have their friends come and talk to you for them...that's lack of testosterone there!!! Talk to a girl for yourself...more brownie points.
That's my point of view...