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Ok...first of all, let me defend the Y chromosome. Not all of us do f@cked up shit like that and I certainly wouldn't buy a girl a ring if I was planning on cheating on her. Second of all...looking through his emails is just plain wrong. I don't care what you suspected or if he gave you the password. Doing that shows a weakness on your part and an inability to trust him in the first place. Thirdly (unless such a word doesn't exist), 5 months of seeing someone and 4 months of sleeping with them doesn't constitute "love". I honestly don't think you can truely love someone without being with them for closer to a year. There's just too much you don't know about them, as you have thouroughly expressed in this post. I'm not making excuses for what he did...he's obviously a total dick and deserves whatever you've done in recourse to what you've discovered...but that doesn't eleviate the actions you took to get such information. My ex did the exact same thing to me....except she hacked my email password and I wasn't cheating on her (more like vice versa). I'd say keep the ring...just don't expect him to be "enjoying" a cold bed from the sounds of it.

BTW...not all us guys are jackasses just like not all girls play mind games. I've never once cheated on a girl (and don't ever intend to) and I've never played mind games...but I've had plenty of girls try to play them on me. keep an open mind and next time, if you feel the need to check his emails, just walk away from the relationship. That means your obviously don't trust him enough to get serious.