allright, whew, what a relief, i checked my oil and it is fine, today i took it to my friend at his shop and have his "TRAINED MECHANICS" look at it and the reason the oil that leaked out was that greyish color was because i had a loose heater hose, and when my engine heated up it popped off and happend to drop down on the same puddle of oil under my car, it traveled down the same path and wham the greyish color, killed two birds with one stone, got a new oil plu and a new heater hose for 25 cents (labor lol). took it for a test drive and car runs like a raped ape

ohyeh!!!! thanks for the help.
also i do need a new head/valve/and other gaskets, because they are all original, so that is what i will do for my winter break.