[black95gs-t]

Here is another of my I missed the whole discussion replies. You shouldn't care what anyone else thinks of you. They don't live your life. Why should they make the decisions in it then? You aren't asking them to date her, that is what you want to do. Look at me as an example. I am a Marine. More than that I am a Grunt. (Grunt=infantry=bullet sponge=you have to be insane to do this for a living) None of my friends read. I do. All of my friends are alcoholics. I'm damn near 22 and I don't even drink. All of my friends smoke. I don't. All of my friends are a bunch of violent, drunk, beligerent, abusive assholes. (note to self, get new friends) On top of all of that, I am Jewish!! Now seriously, how many Jew's do you know of in the military? Long story short, (well shorter than it could have been) Do what YOU want, when YOU want, because YOU want to do it. You will be much happier in the long run.
J