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Old 08-22-2003, 07:53 AM   #5
DsBlu01CivEX
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I don't agree with it. Any of these situations that people I know of have been put in, one of the 2 people have been attached to the other person, which is the reason why they put themselves in the situation to begin with. So while the one person is attached (normally the girl) the other isn't and doesn't bother to call or talk to them until they want another piece of @ss. So, then my question is....Where does it stop? I just don't think it's fair to either party. The attached person won't move on because they have this pipe dream that the other person will one day come around and want a relationship...and by having that dream they don't move on and try to find someone who is worth their time. And the attached person then always has a deep down feeling of being used, which is NEVER a good feeling. Then the non-attached person thinks that hell all they gotta do is call this person up anytime they want (including 3 am) thinking that "well blah blah likes me so much, he/she will come over no matter what." So, they just sorta expect that it'll happen. I just don't think it's a cool situation to get into.
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