Hmmmm, sounds like he might be a player and is using this excuse to his advantage, meaning he could get "shipped out" when things get old. I know he may or not BE a player but you should only go out with him if you think you could handle getting close to him and him leaving. Judging by your hesitation, meaning by asking US for OUR opinion, I'm not sure you would be able to let him go easily. I used to wear my heart on my sleeve and always got hurt all the time because I got too close too soon. I just don't want you to get hurt this way too. IMHO, don't. No one EVER said being with someone in the service is easy due to the risks involved, ie losing them permanently. It takes a strong person to be with them and if you can do it, more power to you girl!! I know I wouldn't, for sure. Ok, off the soapbox now.
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