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Did one of his prior girlfriends cheat on him? If so, it might be why he is soo upset. He has a right to be "gun shy" but he also has to realize that you are NOT her and that type of thing won't happen with you. It also sounds like you guys need to talk about trust in your relationship and if that did happen to him, why. If he's anything like my ex, it's gonna be hard to get him to open up and talk about it. But once it's out, you guys can work on the trust issues. If he doesn't want to talk, then he's not ready to. Don't push him too hard just let him know why you're upset and that you'll be there when he is ready to talk about it. Men DO NOT like to talk about their vunerability, to anyone. Give him some time but don't hold your breath. You're more important than anything else in this world, in other words, always look out for number one! Ok, I'm off my soapbox now.....I just don't want you to get hurt like I did.
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