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Old 06-05-2003, 08:35 AM   #11
Whiteclipse99
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Location: York, Pa
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Originally posted by HndaTch627
it's the nature of things, us guys go thru it to when we ask someone out(it usually means you are into them) and get rejected. in time it gets easier to let go, but my suggestion is don't even converse with him until you are over it. you are only tricking yourself by continuing to talk to him.

jeremy



Except for the exchange of "hello, how are you?" I've tried not conversing with him (mainly because I feel kind of dumb since he rejected me), but it's kind of hard because he's a bouncer at the club I go to and he's usually the one scanning us at the door or checking IDs and I come in direct contact with him. Besides for awhile after the night I asked him out he would usually just blow me off. Then last Friday night he was at the door of course and we said hi and he asked how I was doing and I said I was having a bad day and he asked if I wanted a hug. I didn't think much of it. Of course that made my night! Heck it made my year! Anyway he really shocked me last night when I saw him at a bar and my friends and I walked past him and we all said hi and he gave me yet another hug! I know, I know, I'm 23, but I still act like a stupid little school girl!
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