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It really comes down to the maturity of the people you're dealing with. But the bigger problem is the strength of the relationship you have, there needs to be alot of trust and respect for anything considered long distance to work. Otherwise you just end up fighting because you're both hurtting over the fact you cant see eachother and are tired of talking on the phone.
Something else to consider is how the relationship was started, if it was started at a distance I wouldn't bohter. If this guy you're refering to lived close and now has moved further away, it will come down to how interested in him you are.
Personally travel time would be a big downer, if i had to drive 2 hours to see my gf. Maybe an hour tops now that I really think about it, because thats 2 hours of 'driving to see her' and thats alot if you want to see her a few times a week. 2 hour drive for 3-4 hours at her place seems a little out of balance to me. Maybe if she also drove the distance and I could trust her, maybe i could deal with more.
Theres a few bucks for ya..
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