First off, Quin is right, you're better off having this ended at this stage in the relationship, and not having you two get married and then something like this happen.
Dude, you should learn a very important lesson from this. It's that you shouldn't rush yourself into things. After a year in a relationship, you shouldn't start making these kinds of decisions. You also should not give a person full trust if they went behind your back...3 times! The stuff that she has, legally, I believe you can get back if you want. I would if I were you. I wouldn't let such a person have something that I worked my ass off for! Oh, and let her get back with her boyfriend. Obviously she's a very easy person if she did it that quick. aka she's a slut. It hurts to think of person you "loved" like that but it's the truth. She is. Full stop, end of the discussion without any doubt type of thing.
I also suggest that you don't go on a "rebound" and get yoursefl a girl quick. Hang out with your buddies, go out alot, waste the money you would spend on her on restaurants, clubs, parties, golf, booze etc etc. Basically anything where you would have fun and stop thinking about her. Good luck on this one dude! If you want to talk, hit me up on aim/icq/msn(juvenile1984@msn.com)...
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