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What does playing have anything to do with this?
If you grew apart there might have been many reasons for that. MOst people forget it takes work to keep a relationship working, need to try new things, and then also just do the simple things that matter most to the two of you. Keep her feeling special, and dont ever treat her like shit because you know she loves you. That will never go over well.
This honestly sounds like a very simple situation, but its mostly out of your hands. If she wants space, shes going to need it. If she doesn't want to be iwth you anymore then its really not your say, now is it? Just dont drop the girl for a week because shes odd, make the odd phone call and just talk. And maybe if shes had a really bad day tell her to get ready to go out, swing by pick her up and head out for something she enjoy's doing. If shes not game to go out, tell her you'll be over in a bit with dinner for her. Stop by some take-out place and get her a nice meal, rent her a movie and crash on her sofa for the night.
Just remember, its all about the little things in life that add up to be the big things.
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