Hey Newb...I appreciate the support, but might I suggest re-wording that post? Just at face value it would seem that the only reason you stayed with this girl through her ordeal(s) was for your own gratification. I'm sure that's not the way you meant it, but that's kind of the way it's worded.
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That was 3 years ago, the first kid is almost 2, and the other one is 1. To this date, I have STILL no gotten ONE DATE. Not one. Not even to dinner! Nothing. Not one kiss. Nothing. No thanks. Nothing.
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Secondly...do you really want to be with a girl that can't learn from her own mistakes? Now...I don't want to call a human life a mistake, but I'm sure she didn't plan for either child. After the first one she should've wised up and either dumped the dickhead or bought some f*cking protection. Seriously...how hard is it to buy a pack of condoms. Especially when you're screwing a junkie. Who knows what kinda diseases he's got. I say either forget the idea of "being with her" or just walk away. You can't have it both ways.
BTW man...it's possible to think about and love sex and still be a good guy. It's all about how you act on those urges that distinguishes you from the jackasses that I'm talking about. I'll admit it...I absolutely love sex...there just happen to be a few more things that are more important to me.