Don't worry.Its only ONE guy but if he took the time to find out from someone who you really were he probably wouldn't be as hesitant plus....its all about business like he said.Sounds like he would talk to u without a problem if you didn't meet at the club...maybe you should follow him when he gets off work and pretend you bump into him elsewhere and then the two of you would be talking...j/k...thats stalkerish
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