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For some reason this just screams immature relationship... dunno if its just me though.
The question resides more with you then it does with her right now. Do you feel you trust her? if you do then you can only take her at her word, if you dont well theres a bigger issue then her messing around with a guy, and thats trust. Got to have trust for a relationship to work. If theres no trust get out now cause this is just the tip of the iceberg.
Though I have never been in your shoes, I have been on the otherside; her side. When my gf at the time thought I cheated on her when I was on the west coast one xmas, there was nothing I could have told her to calm her down. She thought I had been around with some of the cali girls and just wasn't telling her. This was just a sign of how messed up our relationship was. One because nothing every happened and two though she said she trusted me she really didnt know how to trust me.
There is nothing wrong with your girl being attracted to another man, remember she still comes back to you. If she keeps coming back that means you offer something that good looks simply cant provide. What I dont like is the fact your gf was stupid enough to put herself in a situation, -with a guy that she knew likes her- where something could happen. THats what would be bugging me right now. Out of consideration for the person you're with I wouldn't find myself alone with someone who has admitted they like me and I've admitted i thought they looked cute. Its jsut something better judgement would tell me not to do, it leaves room for questioning and you never want to leave the guy/girl you're seeing room to question your actions.
Remember actions speak louder then words and she could be talking shit. Two people can look at the same event and see two very different things. Dont trust that she didn't mess aorund, get out before your heart is anymore hurt. If you do trust her and something like this happens again, question if your trust resides in the right place.
Hope that was some food for though... speaking of women... and if you can't tell by my sig/info i dont trust most women... word!
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