If he is a good guy then the chances of him having been burned at some point in the past is probably pretty good. Could have been him or a buddy getting in some bad situation with dating a customer or something....
I could come up with a pile of scenarios that would make me say the same thing if I were a bouncer.
Just pick yourself up and chase down the next lucky guy in a non-stalker-crazy-girl manner.
Along the lines of what Rob said, though....I like the
idea of a girl asking me out, but it does make me wonder sometimes what's up because it's very different from the norm....
b