I think by "crap" she was reffereing to the hassle envolved in being a 1 parent and 2 going through the child birthing/pregnancy... as a father I'd imagine you would understand how CRAPPY that stuff can be...
I got my fiance un-expectadly pregnant as well... dif. situation seeing how marriage was in the plan anyway...
but I don't know what to tell you... honesty and straight forwardness is always the best course of action in situations like this... if your father can't deal... well that's his problem and you have bigger things to think about... (what importsonly said is true you'd be amazed how much a child changes things for parents)
As far as the father... forget it he sounds like a loser and even if he isn't he's already got that other girl GUARANTEED to be in your life for the rest of his life... if you're with him.
It's tough and all but I'm sure you'll make it through fine.... buck up little camper.
